Dirty talk, to me, is all about writing what turns you on. I'm not that much into name-calling either (although well-contextualised, if it's clearly a game and that the person being insulted is really into it, I like it). I love dirty talk, it's probably my n°1 kink, and it's actually what I find easiest to write? Descriptions of how two characters fuck are much harder for me than a dialogue between characters talking about how much they're aroused. What is nice about it is that you can be very spontaneous. I think it also greatly depends on the character. For instance, I think Harry would mostly compliment and swear ("fuck, this is amazing"). I imagine Severus to be very much in control of his tone, and carefully choose his words. I think Pansy would be unapologetically filthy and revel in shocking slightly her partners by staying stuff such as "I want you to sit on my face, *now*", out of the blue, looking them dead in the eye. People can be shy about dirty talk and I think that's very endearing; portraying the way a character gradually gets confident about it and eventually trust their partner enough to let loose and voice their thoughts and fantasies is really cool, too! I can't wait to read what you're writing :)
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Date: 2014-11-18 11:13 pm (UTC)Dirty talk, to me, is all about writing what turns you on. I'm not that much into name-calling either (although well-contextualised, if it's clearly a game and that the person being insulted is really into it, I like it).
I love dirty talk, it's probably my n°1 kink, and it's actually what I find easiest to write? Descriptions of how two characters fuck are much harder for me than a dialogue between characters talking about how much they're aroused. What is nice about it is that you can be very spontaneous. I think it also greatly depends on the character. For instance, I think Harry would mostly compliment and swear ("fuck, this is amazing"). I imagine Severus to be very much in control of his tone, and carefully choose his words. I think Pansy would be unapologetically filthy and revel in shocking slightly her partners by staying stuff such as "I want you to sit on my face, *now*", out of the blue, looking them dead in the eye. People can be shy about dirty talk and I think that's very endearing; portraying the way a character gradually gets confident about it and eventually trust their partner enough to let loose and voice their thoughts and fantasies is really cool, too!
I can't wait to read what you're writing :)