This is a tricky question because I think dirty talk is less a distinct kink, and more a thing that can be used to express lots of different kinks. I mean, if spanking is a kink for you, then "I'm going to smack that ass so hard" could be effective dirty talk, but if it's not, then it'll leave you cold.
But speaking in general terms, what I like about it is that it gives the characters a chance to reveal their own kinks and desires. Saying out loud what gets you hot can be very intimate and revealing, and it's exciting to break taboos and say things that you would never say in everyday life.
Dirty talk can really be about anything, it doesn't have to be based on humiliation. Whatever you've decided the characters like, just have them talk about it before/while they do it, and there's your dirty talk. :) You'll never be able to please everybody, because whatever words or concepts do it for you, it's a guarantee that someone else finds them squicky or silly-sounding, so you kinda just have to dive in and write what you would want to hear.
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Date: 2014-11-18 07:46 pm (UTC)But speaking in general terms, what I like about it is that it gives the characters a chance to reveal their own kinks and desires. Saying out loud what gets you hot can be very intimate and revealing, and it's exciting to break taboos and say things that you would never say in everyday life.
Dirty talk can really be about anything, it doesn't have to be based on humiliation. Whatever you've decided the characters like, just have them talk about it before/while they do it, and there's your dirty talk. :) You'll never be able to please everybody, because whatever words or concepts do it for you, it's a guarantee that someone else finds them squicky or silly-sounding, so you kinda just have to dive in and write what you would want to hear.