Okay, despite being a writer myself, I've not yet had the opportunity to try my hand at dirty talk in any of my fics so far, but I'll try to answer this from what I know.
Basically, there's soft-core dirty talk and hard-core dirty talk, and the difference is between the object and the subject of the dirty talk. So soft-core is basically the talker saying what they like (subject), for example "I like watching you come,", whereas hard-core is the talker saying what they want from their partner (object), for example "I want you to come on my face."
When it comes to actually reading it, for me personally the words just have to fit the mood, not only of the sex itself but the fic in general. A sweet fic where the two character are stumbling and cute suddenly ending up shouting "FILL ME UP DADDY!" is just not going to work. But a frustrating build up where everything spills over into frantic fucking is much more likely to have some dirty talk in it.
I generally prefer soft-core dirty talk to hard-core, and I actually do have a favourite story with some of that in it, if you're interested: http://archiveofourown.org/works/154453/chapters/221973 - that's chapter 3, and really hot, lol
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Date: 2014-11-18 07:41 pm (UTC)Basically, there's soft-core dirty talk and hard-core dirty talk, and the difference is between the object and the subject of the dirty talk. So soft-core is basically the talker saying what they like (subject), for example "I like watching you come,", whereas hard-core is the talker saying what they want from their partner (object), for example "I want you to come on my face."
When it comes to actually reading it, for me personally the words just have to fit the mood, not only of the sex itself but the fic in general. A sweet fic where the two character are stumbling and cute suddenly ending up shouting "FILL ME UP DADDY!" is just not going to work. But a frustrating build up where everything spills over into frantic fucking is much more likely to have some dirty talk in it.
I generally prefer soft-core dirty talk to hard-core, and I actually do have a favourite story with some of that in it, if you're interested: http://archiveofourown.org/works/154453/chapters/221973 - that's chapter 3, and really hot, lol
I hope this helps?