You've got to get obsessed and stay obsessed

I understand. I like a lot of different dynamics - for instance, I like to read and write a confident Harry, AND a confident Draco, and sometimes I like to read and write a more shy / neurotic Harry, or a shy / neurotic Draco. I think it's when it becomes a real stereotype cliche that one of them is the boy, and one is the girl, that's it's problematic.

I love it when they're beautifully IC. And sometimes I just don't care, because the dynamic is very appealing to me, and the fic is hot, or funny, or kinky enough :DD