I really don't get why Some people are so adamant of saying they wouldn't work out. Everyone has at least one good friend with completely different interests-but same or similar core values- and those work out- so just WTH?
they key difference between "working out" and "doomed" is in core values Not in personality differences. like she might be a workaholic and he might be a working sloth, but if both of them value working hard and not being prejudistic then that's going to take them further than if both of them were workaholics.
(plus my grandparents were like R/Hr almost to the letter and they stayed married till the "death do us apart" so yeah. )
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Re: HERMIONE'S THREAD
Date: 2014-02-16 04:16 pm (UTC)I really don't get why Some people are so adamant of saying they wouldn't work out. Everyone has at least one good friend with completely different interests-but same or similar core values- and those work out- so just WTH?
they key difference between "working out" and "doomed" is in core values Not in personality differences. like she might be a workaholic and he might be a working sloth, but if both of them value working hard and not being prejudistic then that's going to take them further than if both of them were workaholics.
(plus my grandparents were like R/Hr almost to the letter and they stayed married till the "death do us apart" so yeah. )