You've got to get obsessed and stay obsessed

I feel you! I love love love the series, but the ships aren't jumping out to me, like Drarry is basically poking out all of the books like a sore thumb (so much UST there!). I think i tend to see Sherlock as asexual? And having a sort of deep emotional bond with John because that's the closest Sherlock will get to develop warm emotions for somebody, and then not because of the challenge (like he gets riled up from Moriarty or Irene), but something like caring. But that's to me entirely not the same as wanting the D. I love the enemy shipping though, but then maybe without fluff? And about the enemies, I was so disappointed at the Irene Adler episode when in the end, despite having been a super strong woman and a worthy opponent to Sherlock, she was tied up and at the mercy of some random guys, until Sherlock jumped in and like some Prince Charming saved the day. What what what with the independent woman thing :(